3-Day Potty Training Plan: 4 Top Tips for Autistic Kids (Without the Tears)

 Potty training a sensory/autistic child is… a whole different ball game. Forget the glossy parenting books that say, “Just put them in pants and they’ll figure it out in three days!” Nope. If only.

With our kids, it’s about patience, puddles, and preserving your sanity (and your carpet).

That’s exactly why I wrote my Sensory-Friendly Potty Training Guide & Toolkit — it’s got of trackers, visuals, and reward charts made for autistic kids and the parents who are just trying not to cry into the mop bucket.



But if you’re after the quick version — because, let’s be real, your toddler is currently hiding naked behind the sofa — here are my 4 top tips for making a 3-day potty training plan less stressful and a lot more doable.

💡 1. Day 1 = Prep is Power

Don’t just plonk a potty down and expect magic. Day 1 is about getting familiar.

  • Put the potty somewhere calm and predictable (not in the middle of a noisy kitchen).

  • Show your child visual supports (pictures, schedules, potty cards).

  • Let them practice sitting fully clothed, no pressure.

  • Make it feel safe — add a favourite toy, cushion, or even bubbles.

Think of it as setting the stage, not forcing the show.

💡 2. Day 2 = Consistency Beats Chaos

This is where the actual practice begins. On Day 2, the goal is routine and repetition.

  • Use a timer or visual schedule to remind them when it’s potty time.

  • Celebrate every success — even just sitting on the potty counts.

  • Keep calm when accidents happen (yes, they will).

Consistency builds trust. Chaos just ends in tears (theirs and yours).

💡 3. Day 3 = Build the Routine

By now, your child has hopefully connected the dots — potty = wee/poo = praise. Day 3 is all about cementing it into daily life.

  • Encourage potty time after meals, before bed, before leaving the house.

  • Keep it predictable. Our sensory kids thrive on routine.

  • Praise, repeat, praise again. (Basically, you’re now a cheerleader in yoga pants.)

💡 4. Rewards Work (But Keep It Sensory-Friendly)

Here’s the truth: not every child cares about stickers. Some couldn’t care less.

So think about what your child loves. Is it:

  • A big hug and silly dance?

  • Five minutes with bubbles or slime?

  • Extra time with their favourite toy?

Match the reward to their sensory world, not what the “perfect Pinterest mums” say.

🚽 Final Thoughts (and a little plug, because I’ve got your back)

Here’s the honest truth: not every child will be potty trained in three days. Some take longer. Some need breaks. Some refuse until they’re good and ready. And you know what? That’s okay.



What matters is creating a calm, consistent, sensory-friendly environment where your child feels safe and celebrated — not pressured and panicked.

If you want the full plan (plus the visuals, reward charts, meltdown logs, and all the little tricks I’ve picked up as a sensory mum), you’ll love my Sensory-Friendly Potty Training Guide & Toolkit.

👉 Order your copy from Amazon 

Save yourself the stress, the tears, and maybe even your carpet. You’ve totally got this. 💜

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