Your Child Isn’t “Difficult” — They’re Overstimulated (And Adults Are the Problem)
This post might make some people uncomfortable — but sensory parents will feel seen. Let’s say the quiet part out loud. Your child is not difficult . They are not naughty . They are not manipulative , attention-seeking , or testing boundaries . They are overstimulated . And honestly? Most of the time… adults are the problem . (Deep breath. Let’s go.) The World Is Loud. Bright. Fast. And Completely Unforgiving. Imagine being dropped into a world where: Lights buzz and flicker constantly Background noise never stops Clothes itch, labels stab, socks feel wrong Expectations change without warning You’re told to “calm down” while your body is screaming DANGER Now imagine being small… With a nervous system that feels everything at full volume… And no words for what’s happening inside. That’s not bad behaviour. That’s survival mode. “But Other Kids Can Handle It…” Yeah. And other adults can drink coffee at 10pm and sleep fine. That doesn’t mean everyo...